Positive Herpes Stories
Are we joking, is there such a thing as a story about herpes that is positive?
Yes, many.
So many in fact that when we began looking for examples of positive herpes stories that we were blown away. Many of the stories are so powerfully uplifting and inspiring that they have literally changed peoples lives (we have been told it several times now)
We invite you to share your own story about herpes by using the comments section below. Your story can provide life changing relief to a person who has just been diagnosed. Tips on dealing with herpes are also appreciated.
I’ve had 4 boys, 2 after my primary ob, and have never felt that h has affected my life too much.
I am in a great relationship for 12 years (got in it after finding out about h), and until about a year or two before I started coming to this board, I didn’t think about it too much. I think…
He told me he was in this for forever so if he got it too, well we’d just have it together. We have had a 9 month old and everything was fine.
I had H the day we were leaving for vacation. Unbeknownst to me, he was going to propose on the vacation. He still did. He was never phased by it. He told me he was in this for forever so…
Yes, it is possible to have a long term relationship without passing this onto your partner.
I was of the generation that was told herpes was only contagious during an outbreak. So I had several sexual partners (some with condoms and some without) and never gave it to any of them. I met my husband in…
Herpes does not define who u are, it’s just one thing you have. There are worse traits people have than Herpes…
I have H, my bf does not. We have a very healthy sex life. You definitely will find someone that loves u enough for it not to matter. Herpes does not define who u are. its just one thing you have. there…
It’s pretty amazing there are kind people still out in the world who really look beyond a lot of things and right into who you are. They do exist.
First off, I would like to thank everyone on this site for the helpful advice and support they have provided with all their words. You have no idea what you do for us and what you did for me. I…
The first thing he said was, “so?”
I went to the doctor, because I thought I had a bladder infection. I ended up being diagnosed with genital herpes. I was shocked, obviously. I literally had no clue how it could have happened to me. When I got…
Herpes saved my relationship and made it better than it was before. I hope this helps one realize that it is really not that bad.
I was diagnosed with genital herpes on December 22, 2010. I was distraught with this diagnosis. The last thing I ever imagined myself getting was an STD. I’m 19, and have only been with my current boyfriend. We have been…
HSV doesn’t make every relationship more long term or serious but it did for us and it worked out well.
How did I know I could trust the person I told? I had a feeling about the guy I was going to start dating. He seemed really upfront and valued honesty. He is in law enforcement and is very moral.…
It is mostly effortless and simple. But have your facts together because they ask questions and you want to be confident and prepared to answer them. IT WORKED OUT GREAT!
I finally had the “Talk” Last night and wanted to encourage everyone I can. First of all , it went very well. I met this woman about a month ago, we knew each other when we were teens, but surely…
He was completely fine with this and I think telling him may have brought us closer.
I’ve spent the past year being super picky about who I would date knowing that I would have to confess that I get occasional cold sores. Well, I’ve met a wonderful guy and we’ve had the “talk” and I was…
We are now married. He is still negative, and we don’t use condoms. True love prevails…. even over herpes.
This Valentine’s day will be my two year anniversary of getting H. When I found out, I thought my world was over. I never thought I would find happiness ever again. I went through a deep depression. I slept all…
Anyone who has herpes will confirm that the stigma is far worse than the actual thing.
It’s not like those pictures you see in 10th grade health class! I was diagnosed a year ago and this site helped me so much, i just wanted to return the favor with a success story… i got h from…
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Post Series: Positive & Inspirational Stories about Herpes
- 1.Positive Herpes Stories
- 2.Today I am thankful for herpes……
- 3.If I can be happy, so can you!
I was 15 when I noticed a small “cut” on my labia minora. It was sensitive to the touch and I became worried when it wasn’t healing. I went to the doctor and was extremely surprised when she told me I had contracted genital herpes.
“But I’ve never had sex!” I exclaimed.
“Have you received oral sex?” she asked.
I had, my boyfriend and I had been exploring each other’s bodies. To our knowledge, he had never had a cold sore, so the diagnosis was a huge shock. After a dosage of Famvir, the “cut” cleared up.
Flash forward 7 years and I have never had another outbreak since that initial “cut”. I have never passed it on to any of my sexual partners. If anything, I consider it a blessing in disguise because it has made me choose my sexual partners more carefully.
My experience with herpes has been pretty damn easy. In fact, the worst part of it was that initial diagnosis – the doctor handled it poorly and placed a lot of blame on me. Every sexual partner has been understanding and comforting. I almost enjoy telling the story now, because it usually counters their previous conceptions of STIs.
I haven’t told many of my friends about my diagnosis, however I was shocked when an acquaintance confided in me that she was HSV positive. She said I seemed like I would be open minded and she wanted a friend. STIs are all around people!!!!
Thank you sooo much for sharing! Another example of how very insignificant and minor herpes can be, especially Genital HSV1 which has been shown to have a very low likelihood of recurring and spreading.
Thank you for sharing your story.I too have it,and felling good.I found out a lot of people have it and don’t know it, that was a shock. I’ve been careful with telling my friends, and there very supportive. I wanna thank you once again.
I have herpes from childhood and last 8 years I had very often outbreaks. About 1-2 times each month. Tried so many things, but seems I found my answer.
Firstly, I had very low D vitamin level (5x lower than normal) in blood, so I really recommend you to test yourself for it. I started drink D vitamin regularly and hold it’s level above 50ng/ml.
Secondly, I made Isoprinosine drug (immune system antiviral modulator) therapy.
Thirdly, as I had problems with almonds often, I made Bronchomunal drug (throat immune system modulator) therapy.
At the moment I can say that I had only one small outbreak within 9 months which disappeared in 2 days. And yes, always have Heviran 400mg like drugs next to you. If you had much stress, went into coldness for a long time or had a lot of alcohol parties, then drink this Heviran (Acyclovirum drug) preventively for some days. This was my answer for herpes.
Summary – check you D vitamin level and correct it if needed, eliminate companion infections if you have (like streptococcus), never stay cold and try immune system modulators. And soon vaccine will come.
Thanks for your feedback Searcher
I was diagnosed with hsv2 a week before my 20th birthday since then I have continued my sexual life once I gain the knowledge of the risk of giving it to my partner I take valtrex and 1000mg lysine daily. Chocolate and stress seems to only trigger a breakout for me. I do have unprotected sex with my partner he is aware and he gets tested regularly and always comes back negative and iam currently pregnant with my first child and i haven’t had a single breakout and my baby is healthy. NEVER STRESS OVER SOMETHING U CANT CHANGE THIS THING CALLED HERPES U CAN MANAGE IT AND STILL LIVE A NORMAL LIFE AND HAVE A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP KEEP A POSITIVE MIND SET ALWAYS
I was given herpes by a cheating boyfriend when I wad 20. I was devastated at the time but found that when I was honest with partners, they trusted me. I go years without an outbreak. I have been with my husband for 8 years and I have had 4 vaginal births. We never use protection and his blood work still comes back negative for hsv2. It’s possible to have long rerun relationships without passing it along.
How inspiring for women with HSV who might be interested in having a natural vaginal birth at some point in their lives! What a powerful message, thank you for sharing Katherine.